Hey there New Brides💍,
You just got engaged–Now What?
Okay, so they got down on one knee on Valentine’s Day (the most romantic day of the year). You said yes, you cried, you called your people, and you’ve probably already sent 47 photos to the group chat. Congratulations, babe! You’re engaged and we bet everything feels like a romcom montage right now.
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But here’s the thing nobody tells you: after the initial high wears off, there’s this weird in-between phase where you’re like… wait, what do I actually do now? And that’s exactly where the magic of romanticizing your engagement comes in.
The Art of Slowing Down
We live in a world that wants you to immediately jump into wedding planning mode. Pick a date! Book a venue! Choose your colors! And while yes, you’ll get to all of that, there’s something really special about giving yourself permission to just be engaged for a minute.
Think of this time as your new bridal era. You just got a ring that you love, and you’re about to plan one of the biggest celebrations of your life. This deserves to be savored, not rushed through like a Netflix series you just binged at 2am.
Here’s what romanticizing your engagement could look like:
Taking yourself on coffee or tea dates to browse wedding inspiration (without the pressure to decide anything). Wearing your ring while doing absolutely mundane things and catching yourself smiling at it. Having long conversations with your partner about the newly paved future that have nothing to do with seating charts. Celebrating small moments, like your first holiday as an engaged couple or the first time someone calls you “fiancé.”
Making it Feel Real (In the Best Way)
The early engagement phase is also when you start making tiny decisions that set the tone for everything else. Maybe it’s choosing a special outfit for engagement photos, or browsing through wedding looks, or creating a Pinterest board that actually reflects your vibe.
These small, intentional choices? That’s you romanticizing your life. That’s you deciding that this season the joy and moments that make you feel like the main character you are.
Your Low-Pressure First Steps Checklist
When you’re ready (no rush!), here are some gentle first steps that actually feel fun instead of overwhelming:
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Take the Time to Let it Sink In - Give yourself at least 2-4 weeks to just celebrate before making any big decisions.
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Announce it Your Way - Whether that’s a cute Instagram post, a casual group text, or calling people individually–there’s absolutely no wrong way to share your news.
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Start a Pinterest Board (if you don’t have one already!) - So you can save everything that catches your eye without worrying about remembering it.
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Have the Big Conversations - Talk budget, guest count ballpark, and general vibe with your partner and anyone helping financially. It doesn’t have to be formal, just get in the same page.
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Pick a Season or Timeframe - You don’t need an exact date yet, but knowing “fall 2027” or “next spring” helps with the planning process.
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Treat Yourself to Something Bridal - Whether it’s a bride sweatshirt, those getting-ready slippers you’ve been eyeing, or a special journal, get something that makes this new bridal era feel real
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Research Without Committing - We see the irony of committing to the person you love but not to the wedding yet. But trust us. Start by looking at venues, photographers, and planners just to get a feel for pricing and availability. You’re gathering intel, not signing contracts.
Remember: this checklist isn’t homework due tomorrow. It’s just here for when you’re ready to take those first baby steps into planning. For now? Romanticize the heck out of this moment.
We’re here for you! Congratulations, bride-to-be’s🩵
Xoxo,
Kailee P. Team